I had a wonderful marriage in the beginning but somehow it started to decline. I think it had something to do with the everyday basics. Money problems, children, even the monotony of everyday life.
My relationship lost its spark and even worse it wasn’t just hum drum things were starting to get bad. I belive it came down to the point where neither one of us wanted to see each other let alone deal with each other. I know that sounds bad but it was the truth and we were quickly heading for a divorce.
Even still I really wanted to be able to work things out and avoid a divorce. My husband would not see a therapist. We should be able to work it out for ourselfs he said. I think he thought that he was going to be blamed for all of the problems in our marriage. That would not have happened because it takes two people to make a marriage work. If things are going wrong in a marriage it is due to a combination of both people.
I know there is life after divorce (all of those super savvy monkeys told me so) but that was not something that I wanted to happen so I came to the conclusion that it was up to me. I spent a long time searching on the Internet and finally pick one that was called Save My Marriage Today. There was so much information in it and it really help us see where are problems were at and gave us guidance on how to fix the problems we were facing.
It seems like so long ago now that we were even having those problems so please know that you are not the only ones having problems and if you really want to you can work it out.
What ever you do, don’t give up on your marriage, you can make it better.
There was a reason that you married each other and if you really look that reason is still there.
Talk to each other and decide whether counseling would work best for you or even if getting some guidance in the form of a sound relationship guide so you can work it out together in your own way.
You have the ability to stop your divorce. If we were able to then so can you.
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